"Indecision is like a stepchild: if he doesn't wash his hands he is called dirty if he does he is wasting the water."
- African proverb
"Tis e'er the wont of simple folk to prize the deed and overlook the motive and of learned folk to discount the deed and lay open the soul of the doer."
- John Barth
"Learn to say 'No' it will be of more use to you than to be able to read Latin."
- Charles Haddon Spurgeon
"To dream of the person you would like to be is to waste the person you are."
- Anonymous
"Character is like a tree and reputation like its shadow. The shadow is what we think of it the tree is the real thing."
"Every man in the world is better than some one else. And not as good as some one else."
- William Saroyan
"In Victorian times the purpose of life was to develop a personality once and for all and then stand on it."
- Ashley Montagu
"Charm is a way of getting the answer yes without having asked any clear question."
- Albert Camus
"I'm not the heroic type really. I was beaten up by Quakers."
- Woody Allen
"A person's reputation is a mixture of what his friends enemies and relatives say behind his back."