"When people ask me what L.A. was like in the sixties, I tell them there wasn't as much terrible stucco as there is today: no mini malls with their approximation of Spanish two-story buildings, no over..."
- Kim Gordon
"Marriage is a long conversation, someone once said, and maybe so is a rock band's life. A few minutes later, both were done."
"Families are like little villages. You know where everything is, you know how everything works, your identity is fixed, and you can't really leave, or connect with anything or anybody outside, until y..."
"All that young-girl idealism is someone else's now."
". . . when my family headed out west, like any birth canal Rochester was forgotten."
"Every woman knows what I'm talking about when I say girls grow up with a desire to please, to cede their power to other people. . . everyone knows about the sometimes aggressive and manipulative ways ..."
"How was she not the quintessential woman in our culture, compulsively pleasing others in order to achieve some degree of perfection and power that's forever just around the corner, out of reach? It wa..."
"I remember how the book talked about the pressure to please and be perfect that every woman falls into and then projects onto her daughter. Nothing is ever good enough. No woman can ever outrun what s..."
"I spent a lot of time vacillating between wanting to be seen as attractive, being terrified by too much attention, and wanting to succeed and fit in without anyone's noticing me."
"That stage in life when older people assume that just because you've graduated college you know who you are, or what you're doing, and in fact most people don't."