"Actively repeating a lie or denial does not make it true."
- Cathy Burnham Martin
"Extra-marital affairs become things of legend… and often the undoing of legends… and mere mortals."
"Cheating is pure hypocrisy. Our partner deserves better than that. If we don’t love someone, we should not be with them. That would also be hypocrisy."
"Screaming and repeating lies makes them neither true nor more believable."
"There is tremendous trauma in the betrayal caused by a perpetual liar as they repeatedly commit psychological abuse."
"Direct lies, small lies, huge lies, and lies of omission… these are all self-serving and sources of self-destruction."
"Most single people are sick of married people presenting themselves as both available and interested, when indeed they are merely “playing.” Oh, yeah… and cheating. Gee, that is attractive. Not! Other..."
"We never want to be taken for granted, but our partners should be able to expect our honest loyalty. That is a powerfully strong foundation block for a relationship. I want to meet the greatest expect..."
"In truth, if it isn’t to save your life when it’s in imminent danger, someone yelling at you is just plain wrong. The same is true for ranting or bitching. The same goes double for anything even close..."
"If a man or a woman starts “expecting” sex, then it is no longer special, and a lover will likely start to feel used."